What if I told you that hight money or status isn’t the only way to win over a girl. In fact there are five key questions that you can ask. That will set you apart from every other guy out there . And in this article I’m going to reveal to you the five top questions to ask a woman on a first date that will be begging her for you to take her on a second one. All right men. It is time to beat the rest of the pack and jump up on top and be the alpha dog with women. And if you want to know that and all you need to do is ask are these five simple questions. Are you ready. Let’s jump in .
5. Are you OK
Number five. Are you okay. Are you comfortable or would you like to go somewhere else. The first thing a woman will be instinctively doing is actually working out if she feels comfortable in your presence. Literally guys within the first five minutes we are asking ourselves two questions. The first question is am I attracted to you. And the second question is do I feel safe around you as the weaker sex. We want to make sure that as soon as we go on a date that we feel that we can trust you to protect us and make us feel at ease. This is why it is so incredibly important to just ask her that don’t leave it up to guessing ask her. Does she feel comfortable in that environment. If there’s too many men there. Does she feel intimidated by the amount of men that is she cold . all these little things that you can actually ask it will help put her mind at ease that you actually care about the way that she feels that you care about her safety and that you actually want to do something about it to make it a memorable and nice date for her guys. Be the hero from the first date take control and actually show her that you were able to step in and make her safety and security your number one priority. And not only that asking her if she feels cold or hot gives you an opportunity to take your jacket off and actually put it around her shoulders and it makes you come across looking like a gentleman which is basically what we want to know.
4. Can you let me know as soon as you get home safe
Number four can you let me know as soon as you get home safe. this one is the one that will have you in the good books with her. Why. Because it shows that you are once again concerned about her safety that you are following up after the date and that you genuinely care whether or not she actually did arrive home safe. Not only that it actually makes us feel like we are a damsel in distress and you are the hero that cares about us and wants to protect us and makes us feel incredibly feminine which is what we want to feel when we’re on a date. We want to know that we can go on a date with a guy and actually know that if anything happened he would step in and rescue us.
3. Where do you see yourself in five years
Number three Where doos she see her self in five years? okay. This is a great question because what it does is two things. Firstly it actually gives you an indication whether or not this girl is on the same page as you because remember going on a date isn’t just about impressing her. You want to make sure that you’re actually impressing a woman that you know you want to invest in into because she actually wants the same things as you. Secondly it also communicates to her that you are a future thinker you’re a man with a plan and that plan could possibly include her. Hence why you asked to that question. Trust me guys before we’ve even met you we’ve already decided if you’re going to be our future husband and what our children are going to look like. This is how we work within the first 10 to 30 minutes of getting to know you. We are racing through all these scenarios in our head which include you to work out if we want to be attracted to you. Keep denting you so you can actually put our mind to ease in some sort of way by asking these key question what it does is it gets us excited because in our mind we think well hang on a second. He is man that’s asking me this question. Maybe it’s because he is a man that is actually serious about finding a relationship. Now I know that we as women jump into the future and hence why encourage women to stay in the present. But if you can use this to your advantage by talking about the future it gets her being even more curious and wanting you even more.
2. Have you ever been told that you look like …( someone famous )
Number two have you ever been told that you look like insert beautiful celebrity. Now this is a little bit tricky. The last thing you want to do is go and compare her to someone that she looks absolutely nothing like don’t go and say that she looks like beyond say if she is clearly Asian or on the flip side don’t go and compare it to some sort of celebrity. That was really kind of trashy. No one was to be compared to Britney back in 2007. This is about sending her a compliment. Now if you can’t actually find somebody who’s famous or somebody of a really sort of high status that she would actually be flattered by then what you need to do is you need to pick out a small detail and compliment her on that. For example have you ever been told that your smile is actually really sunny. Or have you ever been told that your eyes change color in different light guys hands down if you say those sort of things to her and actually ask her if she’s ever noticed what it does is you send the signal that you’re a noticing something special about her and b that you’re assuming that she doesn’t know that. So what she’ll do is you actually feel really kind of beautiful and special and she’ll also feel really humbled by your compliment.
1. Are you a family type of girl
And number one are you a family type of girl. OK this is a question that is going to hit her right in the fields. Why. Because a man who asks about family is a man who probably wants to get married is a man who probably most have children equals a man that is a jackpot. That is how guys honestly. So if you’re able to talk about her family her desires for a family and also listen to what it is that she says you’re going to come across as somebody who’s really sincere someone that is forward thinking and future planning. And it also means that you’re probably going to have really genuine qualities that make someone that is a family guy a great guy in general. Now chances are if you’re dating at a certain age then children are going to come up at some point whether she’s got children you’ve got children or neither of you do. This isn’t about lying and pretending that you want children. There are certain ways to actually talk about things but still keep her interest. For example if you know that you’re not really wanting to start a family with someone. If she ask you Are you wanting to have children. You might want to say I’m pretty sure that I don’t want to have children because I know that the right woman will be enough for me. Or if you actually do eventually want to have children then what you can do is you can really kind of draw her in by saying Yeah I know that I want to have children one day but I think I’ll know for sure when it’s with the right sort of girl. You’re basically planting seeds of hope into her brain that yes it is a possibility that you want to be a part of her future or that she’s going to be a part of yours. And so that is really going to get her going into overdrive of actually starting to envision that herself.